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True!

I just read something this morning:

"The most difficult phase in life is not when no one understands you.

Its when you don't understand yourself"

I agree. In a way, that's my problem right now!



So God, I make the following promises now:

[1] I will STOP sulking for every little thing from now on.

[2] I will consciously start to look at the brighter side of things, until I get back to my old self of looking at the nicer things naturally!

[3] I will start smiling more.

[4] I will stop worrying about unnecessary things & unnecessary people - which/who happen to be equal to zero in my life.

[5] I will still continue to expect less from others, but I am not going to let that stop me from giving to others.

[6] I will enjoy & cherish what's on hand now, rather than brood about what is not there or what's not happening. But that doesn't mean I am going to stop trying to better things & get what I want!

[7] And above all, I WILL STOP CRIBBING ABOUT EVERY DAMN THING in life! I have been cribbing too much about things in the last 2-3 months, I know! 

Good luck to me, God! :)

Please help me! >:D<

And guys  - its in more recent times that I have been understanding how much important friends are in life! And what a blessing it is to have friends who are ready to give you a patient ear when all you want to do is just talk & vent! I guess I do have my fair share of reasons to feel blessed - after all :)


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Sigh! :-<



Its one of those bad days when nothing seems to go right! 


Sigh!



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Hehehe!!

"Hi. I am Babji. My hobbie is making friendship with new people.

May I do, please? Add me

Please replay me. I like your manner.

Bye. Thanks"



And I clicked on 'No'. Babji is NOT my friend

:D
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HAPPY DIWALI!




Happy Diwali, Guys! :)


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Gyan Sessions for the Day!

Lesson # 1

Don't ever let a person know that you are completely comfortable with them - especially when they are from your work place. Anywhere outside is acceptable to a level.

Lesson # 2

Don't ever let a person forget their lines & limits - draw a line and let them know you mean work when you are at work!

Lesson # 3

Always learn to keep people at a bay right from the beginning - especially if they happen to be the kinds who try to take friendliness for granted & over-act

Lesson # 4

If anybody is trying to act smart & trying to having fun at your expense, thinking you are friendly & won't bother too much - don't let it prolong too much! Show them their place right in the first few instances!

Lesson # 5

This is very useful. If you are known to be cheerful & talkative most of the time, when you are really p***** off, shut up for a day, give curt answers, act busy and basically let the people around know you are REALLY p***** off with them - they will come to their senses immediately!

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What good news this is! :D

Ah the news has finally come!!

Something I had been waiting to hear for a long long time now!!!


Read this!!!


:D :D :D :D

Be sure to read the comments below in the discussion board :))
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Congratulations Time :D

Ok... there is a demand for me to post a new one.

And I thought & thought & thought and suddenly found a good reason I could do this post.

People - please congratulate me - This is my 50th post of this year

:D :D :D :D :D :D

And now - lets start the chat here again :D


[Bad though - Curious isn't here and then Gaya is going to be away on her vacation shortly. Others - please take their places :D]
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Thank Yoooooo!!!

As promised..........

For Gaya - for spreading the truth about the lies that Vrij has been spreading :D

For Swati - for helping me so much in increasing my comment count :))

And for everyone else - Curious, Prasad, Vrij, Nautankey, Prad ..... you all people are specifically the reason why I say what the picture says!

And another point to mention - if VB had not bugged me to keep writing - maybe I would have really abandoned blogging! Thanks for that - VB :)

I love you people!!!!






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Imagination Stories!

Since Naut Baba wrote about his imagination stories, I thought I would write someting as well about it - not mine, but another friend's. I had originally posted about this on my O3 blog - but am sure nobody over here has read it - so its ok :D

There was this classmate P in 8th std, with a HIGH sense of self-esteem - she was sure she was no less than a beauty queen [reality was contrary to that] and behaved pretty high-strung! 

It was after the 7th std annual holidays and everybody were back in school in full josh. Everybody were excitedly discussing as to who did what and who went where. 

Suddenly we noticed that this girl, P was unusually quiet. So I ventured to ask her-"What P, what did u do and where did u go?" .She started off quite animatedly with how she had been to Malaysia . One of her aunts supposedly stays there and that lady supposedly LOVES [she stressed on loves - recreating that effect here] this girl a lot. Whenever she comes down to India, she usually showers her with a lot of goodies and gifts. And for the holidays - P had been to Malaysia to visit the shopping fair!

It seems, when her aunt had come to India the last time, she had gifted her a big watch which was very beautiful, but quite loose for her hand. Now this girl was really very chubby - so it was a little strange to hear a watch being loose for her. She actually showed the dial of her watch as someting really big--she cupped her palms like a lotus to form some big, odd circle and told us that it was that Big!! Now this girl wore this watch to the fair. And the fair was very crowded. She enjoyed a lot and she played on all the fun things that were there and all that. And finally when they all decided that they should go home, she suddenly noticed that her watch was not there. After all, it had been loose on her hand, rite?? 

Tsk Tsk Tsk!!!  And so, she started crying. And they went around the whole fair searching for her watch, but in vain. And so, they finally gave up on the big beautiful watch. Her aunt pacified her telling that it was ok. And in her own words---her aunt was very "open-hearted" :))

After the story, she excused herself and off she went to the canteen for some more samosas and chips :D

If this story was one high, after a few days, she narrated another one that touched another high. It went like this.

On one her supposed trips to Singapore, her whole family and relatives decided to join her. There were sooooooooooooooooo many people, according to her, that they decided to book an ENTIRE plane just for themselves!! :-| Now this was heights!!! 

Once they were settled in the plane, they decided that they should have some fun. So they started playing Antakshari, it seems. In the plane!!! And then , another bouncer here. They opened all their windows in the plane, because it was getting hot. The reason she gave--they were nearer to the sun now, than on the ground level!!! And now there was this little 2 year old kid who was sitting beside the window watching out at the clouds . And suddenly, the girl slipped out of the window!! But these people were busy with their antakshari and didn't notice. 

After the antakshari was over, they suddenly noticed that she was not there. And when they looked out of the window, they saw the girl falling down.[Was the plane standing still all that time?] And so, they ran to the cockpit and told the pilot what had happened. And the Pilot--now listen to this--took a u-turn and dived down after the kid!!! And our heroine P stood near the door and caught the kid just before she hit the ground. That was how she saved the girl's life.

At the end of this story, all of us listening to it din't know whether we should laugh at it for her stupidness or cry for her belief that we would lap up her story!! And to think - madam had not been out of Tamil Nadu also, at the time when she told us these stories!


And to add another story to this is Vrij's imagination - about me having an affair with my married boss! I would say its more funnier than the one I told above :))

So guys - QUIT thinking am in an affair - am an innocent girl :D Please don't damage my reputation and close possible options also for me :D :D :D :D
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????

I wrote the previous post in pure fun rey. Please don't think I am just a dumb girl who really thinks life's all that rosy :D

Maybe better off changing the topic soon :D :D


Of late, I have become less cheerful & more cynical [I used to be 'hyper-cheerful' previously :D]

I argue more [my argument ability has improved, though :D]

I lose my temper more often

I sulk more too - and these days, I can go for even more than a day without talking to anyone, except when talked to :-o :-o

I have started using B****** for stupid guys on the road or when someone keeps making prank calls! :-| I used to be so against using all that stuff!

I am more into a 'don't care anymore' attitude these days - I hardly cry :-o

And I have a nagging feeling somewhere that tells me I am wasting my life - utterly wasting my life!

Does all this mean I am growing up? Or maybe growing older? 

:D



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On a different, rather funny note - read this review. Its an old one - but saw it today. Its very funny!

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Ahhh!! My Hero :D

Since I started talking about a guy coming for me on Black Steed in the comments on the prev post, I thought I may as well write a post on it :D

That cinematic dream has always been there - it would be a windy day, my hair's all flying around in a very cinematic way and I am giving all those beautiful smiles - and suddenly, I turn my head in random direction, in a proper slow motion and THERE! I see the hero looking intently at me!! And Love blooms!

Ta-dang!!

And we live happily forever !! :))

:)))))

I blame it on the Mills & Boons :D

And when I saw Shania Twain's That Don't Impress Me Much, I was verrrryy impressed by that song, esp the last part. :D

And then, I made a few changes to my dream - I decided I will go the old fashioned way and this time - my hero's going to come for me riding on a Black Steed!! He need not wear armour and all - but dashing he's got to be :D

And then I grew up and went about adding a couple of other items to it - 

[a] Mr. Hero must belong to either of the Earth or Water Signs [Pref should be a taurean or a scorpion :D. Others can be considered :D]

[b] Mr. Hero should be a vegetarian. If he really likes non-vegetarian, he may go out & eat whatever crap he wants to, but should not force me about it

[c] Mr. Hero should be a non-smoker

[d] Mr. Hero should be a non-drinker. Social drinking, to a level, is just about acceptable :P

[e] Mr. Hero should tell me 'I Love You, darling' wholeheartedly as many times as possible in a day :P :))))

[f] Mr. Hero should take me out every weekend and should take me out on shopping sprees every now & then :D :D 

These are things - additional to the usual 'should understand me, should be kind, should be loving, should respect my parents' dialogues :D 

There maybe a couple of things that can be added as it goes along, but for now, lets stop the post here :D

And yea, incase you guys have any ideas, please pass them on - I would like to consider more options too :D



***** and to Swati => Lets hope the new hearts beside my name add some luck in helping me find this kind of guy :)))
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Hmph! :-|

We were cutting a cake at my work place to celebrate a colleague's birthday.

The cake pieces were being distributed.

I was wanting to tell them that I wanted the smallest piece 

Something went wrong then - I had the thought process happening in Telugu in my mind and I was speaking in English and ended up telling them.... 'I want the chinnest piece from the lot'.

{chinna[Telugu]/chinnadhu[Tamil] = small}


I am the laughter stock at work now - people around me are telling the others - 'hey.. she is the chinnest girl, right?' & guffawing at their own jokes, as am writing this.

Hmph!! :-|
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Don't do this!!

Whatever are they doing to my dear darling Hyderabad??!! :( My Andhra Pradesh? :(

And that Owaisi jackass is demanding for an Urdu Hyderabad

x-(

To Hell with you x-(

Imagine - AP becoming 4 parts - Andhra, Telangana, Rayalseema and the UT Hyderabad!


Scary thought !!! :-|

Pleeeeeeease let us stay together!! 


JACKASSESSSSS!!!!




[P.S For those looking for the blog-chat sesions, please follow Curious' post :D]
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This is for You! :D

Ok.. My second post for today .. another one that I promised..!!

Curious AKA Nandoo ... Thanks pa!! :D 

[bad that you aren't feeling too good today, though :)]

Thanks for 'jacking up' my comment number :))) You helped me set a new record, after I shifted to blogspot :D

You are the 'Lordess' now :))

Single & Sexy I know. Ready to Mingle? ..... Prasad should confirm that :D



>:D<


:D Take care & get well soon!



[Comments/Flirting/Arguing/Negotiations ellam inge continue pannikongo :D]
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Thank You! :D

Prasad....

Thanks for increasing my comment count everytime I post something.. :D

Thanks for bringing back the good old O3 days of blogchat :))

And per your request - " I Bow to u, O lord"

:D :D :D :D :D

And per further request - "nalavar,valavar, 4um therinjavar"

Some more additions requested "sexey, single and ready to mingle too"

:)))))


See... I am posting the post I promised I would do :D
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:( & :)

Working for a US client has many many disadvantages - the main being you are an Indian and India has umpteen number of holidays - and you don't get to enjoy most of them :(

Sometimes, its soooo bad - we come to the office, switch on the lights ourselves and get to work :-| Everybody else has an off - they follow the Indian calender.

Understand my plight, when we have to work on Independence Day, Gandhi Jayanthi and Republic Day too :(

HAPPY DASARA TO YOU GUYS ANYWAYS :)

Enjoy the time off... have fun!! Lots of it :) Including my share :D

Eat lots of sweets, share all your fun with lots of people and May this Dasara mean lots of good & lots of new things for all of you.







P.S. [Only sympathies are accepted about working on Indian holidays. Don't get into how we enjoy weekends off :P]
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Whatever!

[1] An un-interested expression [is the word right?]

[2] A bored 'where to'?

[3] 'What do you want to do' - a ridiculous sounding question!

[4] 'Ok.. YOU tell ME! Where and why do you want to go?'


When I know these are the reactions I would get - why the HELL am I still stupid enough to keep asking the same group of people that we go out & enjoy a day out??

Why doesn't God give me enough will-power to keep my mouth SHUT and never ask them that we go out & have fun on a weekend?!

God - I tell you - you are being VERY unfair to me!! x-(

Why haven't you given me any company - friends that I can go out with & have fun - atleast on a weekend? 

I feel rotten :(
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